I think a lot of bi women don& #39;t get is that for a lesbian being left for a man is degrading. When it happened to me it was actually the most damaging, hurtful, painful thing I& #39;ve ever experienced. Hearing someone talk shit on men for 5 years then her leaving for one is betrayal.

I get shared experiences are important to a lot of lesbian too but from personal experience this is my take. I know it& #39;s harsh but I& #39;m not risking that again because it took YEARS to trust again.

Glad people are liking this, we should make an & #39;i was dumped for a man& #39; support group