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okay i see y'all hating on harper. but let's talk about it because apparently y'all didn't watch the scene when john and abby go for a walk.
HAPPIEST SEASON SPOILER ALERTokay i see y'all hating on harper. but let's talk about it because apparently y'all didn't watch the scene when john and abby go for a walk.
let's start by saying that what she did is not right and it was not fair with abby and i know that,but what you have to understand is that coming out is absolutely fucking scary. for what i've seen,even for those who have a supportive family.
i'm not out to my family yet,and even though i know they wouldn't kick me out and hate me forever (THAT'S HAPPENS TO MOST OF US),sometimes i'm just not sure. they say certain things that are very hurtful — harper's mom saying "that lifestyle..." about riley being gay,for example.
that kind of shit hurts and i've cried so many times because my parents would say something like that. it makes me doubt their support. it makes me hide. and it hurts me to fear being myself. but i do because i love them and i'm so afraid to loose what we have.
many times i was about to come out and they made some homophobic joke and i just didn't. it happens. i've been distancing myself from them the last couple of years because i feel that if things do not go well when i come out,it'll be less painful to go away. but it's painful now.
so what i wanna say is that harper's feelings aren't less valid because of her actions. living by fear is the worst fucking thing in the world,and it's not fair and it's so fucked up that sometimes we end up hurting other people.
we all have different experiences that we all face differently,and all deserve support and understandment. we need to learn our lessons and grow from it. like harper did. like her family did. like everyone does.
i hated harper for what she did to riley and then to abby,but we gotta see both sides of the story here. i feel harper and i am harper right now,hoping that one day i'll be abby.
sending love to all other closeted people out there. we are valid and deserving of loving and to be loved. hoping next christmas we're all able to bring someone home too.
but yeah,i think riley and abby should've ended up together tho lmao Y'ALL CAN'T BLAME ME THEY HAD SUCH A GOOD CHEMISTRY
