one thing that i’ve learned this year is that being in relationships cannot save you from yourself. giving your love to someone else and neglecting yourself will only end in abandonment of them and you. you will feel empty, alone, and worthless. you will cling to your indetity

to who they want you to be. you will feel lost. your relationship will be toxic and most likely have some sort of mental abuse.

you will have to start from scratch. you will have to build your own house of yourself. your ribs will break, you will feel alone. you will have to make the blueprint and slowly start piling the bricks and wood up to make your vision come true. it’s such hard work,

but it is so worth it. stop waiting for them and come home to yourself. they miss you.

rise from your throne like an eagle who’s never had a clipped wing