Make a list of the things you have to pay for in a month:

- Hair, nails, skin, lashes, waxed, gym, clothes, heels, razors.

- Tampons, pads, panty liners, paracetamol, extra underwear.

Then ask if your bf would like to split that 50/50 with you. Chances are he won’t.

It is far more expensive to be a woman in the society we currently live in. To pretend we’re all equal therefore women should pay 50/50 is a myth. Because if we were doing true 50/50 all the benefits you enjoy being with a well-groomed woman; you’d have to pay for too.

Items marketed for women are often more expensive. From razors down to haircuts. It’s called the ‘pink tax’.

So going 50/50 with men is a scam because you’re already paying a heavier cost of being a woman financially and via society.

Wow to this DM I’ve received.

Black women you actually don’t have to settle in this life - you genuinely don’t.